Mum And Dads

Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 7:43 am

Sorry to moan at you ladies but i dont know who to turn to!!!!

As i was saying a few weeks back me and dp were spiliting well we have but we are still living in the same house, I found out last week he's been cheating on me again since the beginning off the year the b@*tard!!!
Ive put in for my own house as i cant get over him why im living with him, Hes still txting and seeing this girl but he keeps messing with my head saying give me a month or so and then i might realise what ive lost like im going to sit around and wait for him to come back to me, i was the one that finished it he wanted to have me and leah at home then have her when he wanted!!!

Ive got this gals number shes about 3 yrs younder than me(thats another thing he always goes for kids) like commitment is a issue here!!!

Why cant i just forget him and not let this get to me its driving me mad xx

Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 8:19 am

aww hun it ok to rant that what we are here for
it hard to let go to something you have know for nearly 5 years, i have never been it that position although my big mouth says now i would knock them out and throw them out but i suppose you never know how you are going to react.
lots of love hun, and if you wanna rant, RANT!!!!!
hope you get somewhere soon x

B Student Joined: 28 Jan 2007 Posts: 694 Hugs: +13

(((hugs))) its definately his loss just remember that and do u know what it really sounds like he needs 2 grow up! i just seen on your ticker that hes 28 which is the same age as my hubby sounds like hes trying 2 have an early midlife crisis which is really rather sad (((hugs)))

Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 11:32 pm

Aaaawww hun! No wonder your mad. I agree with Linds i would be hard pushed not to kill the 2 of them. Why cant you keep that house and chuck him out? If not tell the council you will be made homeless with a baby due to a breakdown in your relationship. They should rehouse you a bit quicker.

He is obviously very immature and needs a kick up the a*se maybe you and leah leaving will make him grow up. If ou cant trust him though there is no point in taking him back.

I hope you get sorted soon hun and then you can concentrate one getting you and leah settled.

*HUGS*

xXx

Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 6:23 pm

Awwww! big hugs hun. Hope you sort things out xxxx

Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 12:32 pm

I hope you and Leah manage to get something sorted soon hun. It must be horrible for you to still be there with him. What an a**e he's being. Anytime you need a rant though, feel free.

Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 7:53 am

Well he said he was going to drive the car into a wall last night as he couldnt cope with all this, i just said your the one thats got us all in this situation so dont try and say things like that for me to feel sorry for him, i just look at him like he's some little boy!!

Last time he went off with someone b4 i got preg, he got a knife and said he was going to kill himself he had me in a right mess crying and begging him not too and he just laughed and said do you think i was really going to do something like that, Im beginning to really hate him and i dont want that hes the daddy to my little girl but its got to the point now where i dont want to leave him with Leah alone.

What do i do? I feel so trapped but he keeps going to must be meeting her she's causing so much trouble aswell i tried to ring her last night to give her a piece off my mind but she told Kev she darnt pick the phone up just incase i go mad!!!

Posted: Tue Apr 15, 2008 6:04 pm

Sorry to hear hes givin you a hard time a hunni, i no its hard, i went though a hard time with my ex and he also pulled the "suiside card" as i call it, and as you, i begged him not to do it, but then it got to the stage were he had used it that much i told him to go and do it, and of course he didnt.

I no you dont want to hate him hun but dont feel you have to like him just because hes leahs daddy, the way he is actyin at the moment is more like a child not a dad/father, and you are in your rights not to leave leah with him if you feel she will not be safe.

Anyone can be a dad but it takes a real mad to be a father.
Dont give her or him the satisfation of you gettin angry and havin ago, thats probibly what they want, try to rise above it hun, i no its hard.
Is there anyway you can move out? parents or a friends just on a temp basis?
Take care hun
xxx